October 24, 2010
Dear Friends,
Without going into the details—because, frankly, the story is just too long and complicated—suffice it to say that I have experienced some very unexpected “bends in the stream” lately. They were the kind of unwanted circumstances that would test anyone’s ability to accept what is, and remain positive. At first, I was a bit upset. But with each surprising turn of events, I found myself growing more and more peaceful and relaxed, instead of more and more agitated. I was able to quickly recover my sense of being “in the flow,” and regain that comforting feeling of being divinely directed. No matter how crazy things got, I was able to remain calm, and focus only on discerning my next right step . . . and the one after that . . . and the one after that.
The reason why I was able to do that is relatively simple. It is simply easier to be in the flow when things really get out of hand, than it is when things are just slightly unmanageable. It is when things are obviously out of control that we more readily relinquish the idea that we can control what is going on . . . and we tend to surrender.
It is in that state of surrender that we become genuinely open to whatever is required of us in that moment. We stop resisting what is, and we stop trying to force things to go the way we “think” they should go. Instead, we desire only to know the next right step that will be in the best interests of all. And it is in that state of genuine receptivity that we begin hear and heed the still, small voice of spirit that is always there to guide us forward.
The real challenge—which is what I am building up to here—is giving up personal control when the situation does seem controllable. You see, living life in the divine flow requires you to constantly stay in “surrender mode”—no matter how easy it would be for you to manipulate a situation to your liking.
That doesn’t mean that you never take any action. It just means that before you take any action, you get quiet, go within, and try to get in touch with the wisdom of your spirit. You might be inspired to take some kind of action that you have never taken before. Or, you may be guided to refrain from taking any action at that particular moment. The goal is just to avoid jumping to conclusions and acting hastily.
Remember that living life in the divine flow is about being willing to seek divine guidance in every situation—even the situations that look like you can easily and instantly handle them “on your own.” That kind of mindfulness will require a conscious effort on your part, true . . . and it may require a fair amount of humility, too . . . but believe me, the outcome will be well worth it.
Steven
© 2010 by Steven Lane Taylor
Author of Row, Row, Row Your Boat:
A Guide for Living Life in the Divine Flow
www.rowrowrow.com
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This experience you've had of learning to surrender and ask for divine guidance one step at a time is so very helpful to me, Steven. I know that when In a situation of crisis, I sometimes get really anxious and my mind becomes blurry. Thank you for reminding me that I can choose to breathe, focus, ask for guidance and I shall receive it.
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